Sabby, I met this incredible woman. She’s everything a guy could ask for and then a whole bunch of stuff you know not to ask for, but hope for anyways. I think she’s interested in me and I’m definitely interested in her. The catch is, she’s married. I’ve heard around the office that she’s going through a divorce. Would it be inappropriate to express my interest in her and how do I do that?

David – California

I don’t even know where to begin. There are so many things wrong with this story.

Okay, okay. First off David… this woman is married. Sure, there are rumors that she won’t be for long but that’s why they are rumors. If she’s still got a ring on her finger, just stay away from her. You could totally make an ass of yourself and worse you could get fired for making advances on a married woman you work with.

Now wouldn’t that suck?

Secondly, you never date someone you work with. Don’t you watch movies David? No? Well go find yourself a non-married woman and take her on a date to the movies. Maybe you’ll learn a thing or two.

P.S. Thank you for being my first male reader. Don’t you feel special.