Dear Sabby,

I have known this guy for pretty much my whole life like since primary school. I’m 19 now. We’ve never been close just more like acquaintances but I’ve always been attracted to him. Well recently we hooked up at a party and ended up having sex. Now he won’t speak to me. What gives?

Ashley – Texas

First off… boys suck. That’s usually reason number one. But let’s face the facts here. You thought he was “like a total hottie” so you slept with him thinking you’d wake up like you are in some cheesy chick flick to breakfast in bed and the promise of forever. Sorry hun that shit doesn’t happen in real life.

You hooked up at a party and I’m guessing alcohol was involved. One or both of you probably had too much to drink and therefor weren’t thinking clearly. Hell, we already know you weren’t. So chances are, he was either just in it for the ass or he’s feeling guilty because he had sex with you under such poor circumstances.

You weren’t buddy-buddy to begin with so I don’t know why you’d expect conversation out of him at all – much less after having sex with him. My advice? Get checked for crabs and move on with your life.